How to Create Profound Intimacy That Naturally Leads to Mind-Blowing Sex!

 By Neo

Go out on the streets right now and ask any woman "how important is intimacy for good sex" and you'll be astounded by how high the percentage is. 

While most guys are busy thinking that size and how long you last are what matters in bed because the main sexual education for men still comes from porn which paints a distorted picture of acrobatic positions and sport sex as the way to go. 

The exact same things that porn portrays to visually get men off are the same components that constitute really bad sex by most women.  If you don't believe me, go ask any of your women friends. 

If you want to separate yourself from the crowd and distinguish yourself as a man who can actually give women what they want, then you must master the art of connection and intimacy on top of your mastery of sensual and sexual techniques. 

As you develop yourself as an extraordinary lover, you will find that the depth of connection and intimacy is inextricably tied to the amount of pleasure your woman can experience.  The more she trusts you, the more she can surrender to your primal masculine power to take her to realms of ecstasy that she has only dreamed about.

If you take away one thing from this article, then remember this.  For Women Depth = Pleasure, Depth = Ecstasy, Depth = Multiple Orgasms!

Emotional depth is created when we trust someone enough to share our inner sanctum with them.  Deep sharing is the revealing of our inner world that few people know or see as opposed to skimming the surface because we are so busy surviving and rushing along in this world.

Depth is allowing someone to delve deep into our consciousness, into our core, into the essence that makes us joyful, fulfilled, passionate, and enthusiastic about being alive.  Sometimes, we are not even conscious of this part of us when the business of every day life takes over and our surface mask programs kick in and we are “satisfied” with the temporary escape into food, alcohol, or television where for a few moments we don’t have to “worry” about our survival. 

If you haven’t taken the time to know yourself and what fulfills you in your core, what makes you feel alive, what you want to contribute to the world, what your gifts are, etc. then it is time to have this exploration. 

Your willingness to discover a greater meaning and depth in your life will allow you to give the same gift to your woman, and all of us have a deep desire to interact and be walking along a path that carries more potency and meaning than the daily grind and the occasional week long vacation just to get away from it all. 

Once again, why do you want to deepen your connection with the woman who you choose to be with?  Because any pleasure that the two of you experience with each other later on sensually and sexually are in direct proportions to the degree that the two of you allow each other into one another’s core. 

The difference in pleasure is directly related to how deeply you feel you can share with the other and can be the difference between a woman who chooses to have sex with you because she is really drunk and she just wants to get off, versus a woman who thinks you are a God amongst men and wants to surrender completely to you. 

Here are some questions that can quickly reveal the depth you are at with each other, and allow you to move toward the higher levels if you so choose.  “On a scale from 1 to 10 how much would you trust her with your money and vise versa?”  “On a scale from 1 to 10 can she trust you with her life?  Would you die to protect her?” “On a scale from 1 to 10 how clearly do you know your purpose and your woman’s purpose in the world?”

“Woah, hold on a second there” you might say!  That’s some serious stuff that you’re throwing out.  I am not telling you to blindly trust a woman even though there may be signals that she hasn’t matured enough in her wisdom to earn that trust.   Going deep is about exploring and seeing all there is, and then setting your intention to play full on, nurturing the deepest fears and hurts and transforming them to support one another in your highest possibilities. 

Many people hold back and expect full results.  Many people try half assed and then complain about not getting what they want.  Some are just afraid that if they give their all and still “fail” then it will “mean” that they are not loveable.   Others will go through the “what ifs” in their mind.  “What if I give my all and it’s still not enough”, “What if I get hurt”, “What if they use me”, “What if she wants me just for my money”, “What if I am not enough”. 

If you play football, expect to fall once or twice.  In the game of love, there will be pitfalls, hurts, and separations, but as in life, it is the people willing to fall, willing to fail, willing to have things not work out who get the most chances in ultimately getting what they desire.  

It takes a man who is strong in body, heart, mind, and spirit to play this game.  If you give your all in creating the most profound level of depth with a woman, the quality of women you can attract will astonish you. 

Women are hungry for a man who is willing to play on this level.  Once you grow yourself to this standard of passion, solidity, presence, and depth, there will be few competition and the odds are far in your favor for connecting with extraordinary women in body, heart, mind, and soul.

If you are honest with yourself when you ask yourself the questions about the level that the two of you are connecting, then you can have a clear measure about the level of depth and intimacy that the two of you are co-creating together and figure out ways to deepen with one another.  Just know that even at a level 7 or 8 on the scales for the depth of your connection can result in some of the best sex that she has probably ever had.  

To get to level 10 on these questions might take awhile, but see this as an inspirational model like being as good as Michael Jordan in Basketball or Tiger Woods in golf, yet it is infinitely more achievable if you just make the effort.  This model will serve you well in having a clear measuring stick to the level that you can play at.  And when you reach for the stars, you rarely end up with your hands in the mud.

As you deepen the connection with a woman, you allow her deeper into more layers of you, and you become comfortable showing her your shadows, your idiosyncrasies, your insecurities, and she does the same.  There then is a foundation of trust created between the two of you that will allow her to open and surrender which naturally results in earth shattering wild screaming pleasures later. 

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